It looks as if this is exploding all over DW so I figured this would be a good time to brave my mobile phone keyboard (pls excuse typos) and offer hugs and support. I'm fond of h/c but that list made me want to run far, far in the other direction... and one of the most hurtful things I have ever read was a fic where someone used my speech disorder as a sort of h/c device (not sure of the exact details and am not reading it again to find out) so, yeah, I share your concerns.

This makes me want to get onto that disability ficathon we were talking about way back when. Now if only I had a proper Internet connection...