I am notoriously bad at noticing flirting, but if that is flirting it is really terrible flirting D: D: D: . Nothing like implying that an important part of many peoples' sex lives is irregular! And from a person I assume works in the medical field! Thanks for judging. And if he's a study coordinator he should be better at not making assumptions =P

I was at a party last weekend where someone called various kinky sex acts "perversions" (and not in the "ooh fun" sense). I am *so happy* to be back in Philly with my usual queer/queer-friendly kink-friendly crowd. Argh. ETA: And I had no idea how to respond at the time, since I wasn't exactly feeling safe or wanting to explain that he was talking about me. Later I decided I should next time make some sort of comment about how I didn't think safe and consensual things adults choose to do were perversions. skola also brought up looking for some sort of educator/advocate class-- I'm not likely to do a ton of education, but it might be useful.