Unfortunately I don't remember the details (aka the vidder/name of the vid, though I remember that it was a multi-fandom vid), but I remember seeing a vid that criticized the tendency to treat "strong women" and "women who are able to physically kick ass" as one and the same thing. It was really interesting and made me think about that distinction more than I had before, so I don't understand why I can't remember more about it! But if I do, I'll let you know.