Yes yes yes, as you know <3. I generally hear "gay rights" for the marriage-oriented movement, distinguishing it from "queer" (as in Queer Kids of Queer Parents Against Gay Marriage), but I wonder if that is becoming less the case with the terminology...

I find myself more and more annoyed with coupledom, though I realize this is partly because of my age and social milieu (marriage and babies everywhere I look, especially on Facebook; I am genuinely happy for people being happy, just sick of the, well, hegemony of it...); I am just so tired of people speaking in terms of "we" and looking at me sadly when I have only singular pronouns to respond with!