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sasha_feather) wrote2013-10-21 09:15 am
sasha_feather) wrote2013-10-21 09:15 am
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"Never missed a day of work"
Today I read an obituary which said, despite the person's chronic disease, "he rarely missed a day of work."
As someone who has often called in sick, I'm always bothered by this common phrase; it praises people who put work before health. Not just their own health, but the health of others: coming to work while having a communicable illness puts others at risk too.
This phrase serves to enforce our place in a capitalist, production-oriented society, where work is the most important thing, and health and rest are distant followers. Workers are granted sick days, but to take them is some sort of indulgence rather than a necessary part of being a human being with a body. We also forget that sick days are something that unions have fought for.
Because I'm always sick to some degree, I often struggle with deciding whether I am sick "enough" to call in, sick "enough" to stay home and rest. Typically I will feel guilty if I call in sick, even though my body demands rest. Having a chronic illness means that I need much more rest than the average person, and something like a migraine or cold will add to my need for rest. Language valorizing people who don't call in, ever, doesn't help to alleviate my guilt.
As I saw someone say on twitter: self care is a radical political act.
As someone who has often called in sick, I'm always bothered by this common phrase; it praises people who put work before health. Not just their own health, but the health of others: coming to work while having a communicable illness puts others at risk too.
This phrase serves to enforce our place in a capitalist, production-oriented society, where work is the most important thing, and health and rest are distant followers. Workers are granted sick days, but to take them is some sort of indulgence rather than a necessary part of being a human being with a body. We also forget that sick days are something that unions have fought for.
Because I'm always sick to some degree, I often struggle with deciding whether I am sick "enough" to call in, sick "enough" to stay home and rest. Typically I will feel guilty if I call in sick, even though my body demands rest. Having a chronic illness means that I need much more rest than the average person, and something like a migraine or cold will add to my need for rest. Language valorizing people who don't call in, ever, doesn't help to alleviate my guilt.
As I saw someone say on twitter: self care is a radical political act.
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I wish that more people would realize that doing good and productive work is not the same thing as complying with the demands of an arbitrary and rigid system -- and also, that doing good and productive work is not the only measure of a life well lived. (How do I measure the day when I broke my ankle and stayed in bed reading Dostoevsky against the days when I went to class and took lecture notes and did not learn half as much as I did from The Brothers Karamazov?)
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I'm sure that you and I both are in favor of more flexible, compassionate systems.