Someday I would love to go to an award show party where no snotty appearance comments were allowed.
It's not about just which direction the comment is punching, it's also about how hearing a lot of snottiness over appearance causes the appearance-judgemental part of my brain to rise up and bang on the door of the dungeon where I locked it long ago because it's dangerous and harmful.
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Date: 2014-05-08 01:18 am (UTC)It's not about just which direction the comment is punching, it's also about how hearing a lot of snottiness over appearance causes the appearance-judgemental part of my brain to rise up and bang on the door of the dungeon where I locked it long ago because it's dangerous and harmful.