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All of Us Strangers. 2023, dir. Andrew Haigh

A dreamy, emotionally raw fable about a lonely screen writer named Adam, played by one of my favorite actors, Andrew Scott. Adam is living in a brand-new, nearly empty high rise apartment building. He forms a tenuous romantic connection with his only neighbor, Harry, played by Paul Mescal. Meanwhile, he rides the train out to the place where he grew up, and through some trick of imagination or magic, finds his parents there at their old house, frozen in time, 1987, just before they died in an accident. Adam gets to meet his parents as an adult and discuss his life. They are younger than he is now, and are open, warm, and frank about their flaws.

Well, I don't know how to write about this film because it's like it reached right into my chest. I found myself thinking of the movie "Weekend," and how that felt like queer therapy, like someone kind was speaking directly to me, acknowledging the joys and traumas of simply existing as a queer person. It's the same director. Good job Andrew Haigh!

The LA Times called this the best film of the year, and I also agree with the review given by Sheila O'Malley at Roger Ebert dot com. I've been contemplating this line, "Both films showed Haigh's sensitivity to human behavior, as well as the good care he takes of his actors, the room he gives them to feel and create... Haigh loves actors." The implication here, and of course the truth, is that many directors do not love actors, and they do not take good care of them. Part of what makes All of Us Strangers so magical is that care and love coming through.

It's an incredible piece of art. Some viewers may find it slow. I found myself settling into the quiet of the film, and of course Andrew Scott is incredibly beautiful. The parents are played by Claire Foy and Jamie Bell, and so just 4 people are essentially the only characters, so it's intimate like a theater play. The colors are delicious. Bring tissues.

Content notes: this deals a lot with death and grief. Contains drug and alcohol use. One extended scene, at a dance club, has lots of flashing lights. Discusses homophobia from a queer perspective.

Other reviews:

https://www.rogerebert.com/reviews/all-of-us-strangers-movie-review-2023

https://www.theguardian.com/film/2023/dec/29/a-generation-of-queer-people-are-grieving-for-the-childhood-they-never-had-andrew-haigh-on-all-of-us-strangers

https://www.npr.org/2023/12/26/1221725627/director-andrew-haigh-talks-about-love-and-loneliness-in-all-of-us-strangers
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I knew I was going to love these films, and I did, they were so beautiful.

Society of the Snow, Netflix.

This is based on the story of the rugby team that crashed in the Andes in 1972, a very famous incident. It is in Spanish; there is a quality English dub that I watched due to cognitive reasons.

(*If I try to listen to Spanish, my brain starts working trying to figure out what people are saying, and due to post-concussion syndrome, steam starts to shoot out of my ears and my brain makes a noise like metal on metal. I found it interesting that I was reluctant to watch the dub and had to "allow" myself to do it, a bit of ableism coming undone there. So anyways I watched the dub with captions also.)

This is a beautifully acted story about death and survival, a tough subject but an amazing journey, very affecting, gorgeously edited. The actors are Argentinian and Uruguayan-- a big improvement from the 90s American film version.

I was very impressed!

Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe

The book is one of my all-time favorite novels. This film was not well promoted, I think due to the strikes? Which is too bad, and I hope it can find its audience beyond the theatrical release. Right now, possibly due to being new, it is rent-only at various streaming services.

The story follows Ari, a teenager in El Paso Texas in 1987. He befriends Dante, who offers to teach Ari how to swim. The story follows Ari as he slowly discovers his sexuality.

Beautiful, quiet, contemplative, really everything I wanted from this adaptation, I got. The young actors are unknowns and they are amazing. The director, Aitch Alberto, is a trans woman.

Superb!!
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Watched some queer movies!

Rustin, 2023, Netflix.

Bayard Rustin is one of my personal heroes so it was a joy to watch this bio-pic that focuses on his role organizing the March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom. The actor Colman Domingo (who is openly gay) was utterly amazing, and I was deeply impressed with some of the other cast members, most of whom are unknown to me. The only fly in the ointment for me is Chris Rock (as NAACP leader Roy Wilkins), I can't stand that guy. Recommended.

(Immediately after watching I put in content notes at Does the Dog die, but they did not save! it's been that kind of day.)

Nyad, 2023, Netflix.

A bio-pic about Diana Nyad, a long-distance swimmer, starring Annette Bening as Nyad and Jodi Foster as her best friend and coach. This focuses on her attempts in her early 60s to complete the Cuba-to-Florida swim. Why people do this kind of thing is beyond me, but it was refreshing to see a film about older lesbians, who dress and act like sports lesbians. Diana herself is kind of grumpy and single-minded and I got the impression the actresses were having a great time with these roles.

Pit Stop, 2013, Hulu.

A re-watch for me. A gem of a film about working-class gay men in a small town in Texas. Like a warm hug from a friend.
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Stressful couple of days but roommate is gone!!

She stole my better silverware and some mugs. She left the kitchen in rough shape. Very dirty and gross!

I've been playing a lot of Stardew Valley just to cope and decompress. I did some cleaning today and threw out a lot of stuff.

I also watched a lovely movie: Shelter (2007), available on YouTube. Caveat, the captions are really terrible.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IwqW2JChK_I

Zach is a young man working as a line cook in San Pedro, California. He enjoys making street art and surfing, and he helps take care of his 5-year-old nibling. He reconnects with the older brother of his best friend, a man named Sean, and they fall in love. Sean is steady and kind. Most of the conflict is Zach's inner turmoil as he realizes he's gay and tries to decide what to do with his life. Zach's sister is also a problem; she's homophobic and dating a jerk. Money is a problem for Zach and his sister, while Sean lives in a fancy, huge house on the coast.

This beautiful little romance is warm and gorgeous. I love the scenes of Sean and Zach surfing, of Zach admiring the sunset and the city scapes, of the two men smiling and being affectionate. Their love seems tied to surfing, to the wildness and freedom of the waves, to the natural quality of being outside and in the water. "Shelter" is an indie movie starring no one I recognize, but it's quite well-produced and well-acted.
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Fire Island - Hulu

I liked this quite a lot! It's loosely based on "Pride and Prejudice" but features nearly-nude gay men having a vacation week on Fire Island. It has 4 queer Asian people in main roles. Very fun. Content note for recreational drug use.

Obi-Wan - I'm caught up through episode 4. The actors are very good looking.

I (re) watched the first three episodes of OFMD with some friends yesterday and that was very fun. Turns out that watching comedies with other people who laugh is much better than watching by yourself.

Stranger Things - I enjoyed Season 4 (part 1). One thing I particularly appreciate is that this is an ensemble show, with many people working together to solve hard problems. The characters are weird and enjoyable. The mix of 80s nostalgia, humor, monster story, and kids-as-heroes really works.

To watch:
Ms. Marvel; catch up on new Star Trek shows; the Orville.

Also still in my Dark Angel re-watch with some_stars, which has been very fun.
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Everything's Gonna Be Okay - Hulu

A warm, soft, feel-good show that is part comedy and part drama. 2 short seasons.

Nicholas is a young gay man who finds out that his dad is dying and he gets tapped to be the legal guardian for his two teenage half-sisters. The elder sister, Matilda, is autistic. She plays piano and composes music. Genevieve is about 15 and is navigating mean-girl friendships and crushes on boys. Nicholas' boyfriend Alex is also a regular character; he's good-natured and sweet.

The show focuses on everyday concerns and relationships. It's clear that the characters love and support each other. Matilda is interested in exploring her sexuality, and the show aims for being sex-positive and giving her and other characters agency in their lives.

The color palette has lots of teal and pink. Nicholas has a chaotic sense of humor and talks quickly. He has an entomology hobby and keeps lots of insects as pets; each episode is named after an insect.

I felt warm and happy watching this show. My one complaint is that there is a dog in some early episodes who disappears after a while, without explanation. (ha)

Feel Good - Netflix.

Also a comedic drama about queer people, but this show is much edgier. This stars Mae Martin, a non-binary comedian (She/they) and is loosely based on their own life. They are living in London and start dating a new person, George (Charlotte Ritchie) who is closeted at first. Mae is trying and sometimes failing to stay off drugs.

The second season explores Mae's past and deals with abuse/ sexual assault, in a thoughtful way. Mae is 30 but hasn't dealt with their past, and this is, they think, why they are having trouble staying clean.

There's lot of sex humor in this, some awkward relationships, and drug use.

I found it very captivating and watched it quickly. I also watched Martin's 30-minute comedy special on Netflix, which covers some of the same material.
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Cowboys - Hulu

TLDR: Well made, but too serious.

This is a story about a family-- a mom, dad, and a kid-- that is having some trouble. The story starts with the dad taking off with the kid and the mom calling the cops to report a kidnapping. The story goes back in time to show us that the kid is trans, and was being bullied by his mom, so his dad came and got him. Together they take some camping gear and a friend's horse, and head out from their Montana town towards the Canadian border. The dad is mentally ill, impulsive, sometimes manic; when he loses his medication in a river, things really start to fall apart.

This film was well made but it was too serious and scary for me. It did not feel aimed at trans folks. It does have a happy ending (ish), but it spends so much time showing the mom being transphobic, that it's hard to understand her sudden change of heart; it's hard to trust her to be a good parent to her kid at the end of the film.

The Montana landscapes are beautiful and the performances are good. The dad is very accepting of his son, and is really trying to do the right thing, but is making some bad decisions due to his mental illness.

Content notes for gun violence, incarceration, a parent slapping a kid across the face, transphobia, "dyke" used as a slur.

Let's Rock

Sep. 15th, 2021 11:19 pm
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On Friday I went to the International Crane Foundation with a friend. This is basically a zoo, but it is all cranes, and it is focused on conservation. I was impressed by the commitment to accessibility: the paths are all flat and wide, and there are plenty of places to sit. We had a nice time looking at and learning about cranes.

Movies I watched:

Breaking Fast - Hulu

It is just so nice to see a movie that is about an observant Muslim gay man. Mo is living in West Hollywood and is one year post-breakup. He's reluctant to date again but meets Kal on the first night of Ramadan. Kal is a white guy but lived in Jordan when he was young, so knows Arabic. They break fast together and get to know each other over the course of the month. Just a nice romantic queer movie.

School of Rock - Netflix

I had very little memory of this movie, though I probably saw it in 2003 when it came out. What a good time! I love comedies like this that are warm and kind. Sometimes lying makes me anxious in movies, because I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop; this is one of those where Jack Black's character is lying through most of the film. But it's so silly and the stakes are pretty low; when he's found out, it's not that big of a deal. Jack Black's physical comedy skills are impressive, and obviously he's passionate about music.
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My new roommate moved in today! It is nice having someone else around. I get kind of unmotivated and strange when I am living alone.

Media report!

Code of the Freaks - documentary about disability portrayals in film. I liked it.

Rūrangi - Hulu

Absolutely adored this. Highly recommended! It is 5 short episodes, or essentially one movie, about a trans man living in Auckland NZ. When something bad happens, he leaves the city and returns to his rural hometown. He reconnects with his old friends and cautiously approaches his father. This is very emotional and clearly made from a trans and queer perspective. Instant favorite.

I finished the available episodes of "Leverage Redemption" and am also caught up on Ted Lasso!
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Right now the problem is, when I try to go to bed, even if I'm tired, I get Restless leg symptoms pretty badly. So I'm trying to stay up and do things instead.

I finished reading "For Real" by Alexis Hall and I loved it.

Some movie notes:

Monsoon - library DVD

A very quiet and slow movie that I ended up liking quite a bit. Henry Golding plays Kit, whose family fled Vietnam when he was 6. He is now returning with his mother's ashes, to find a place to spread them. He re-connects with his 2nd cousin, Lee, and journeys around Saigon and to Hanoi. He hooks up with an American man named Lewis, and they decide to see each other again. There are lots of long shots of Henry Golding just walking around and looking at things; arty shots of him in a mirror or through a window; shots of him riding along on the back of a scooter. He's extremely good looking, of course, so this is easy to watch.

There is very little dialog and almost no music; instead we hear traffic noises, birds, and rain. Kit wears the same light-weight pink shirt in many scenes, perhaps indicating that he's a light packer, or that he really loves that shirt.

Through the few conversations Kit has, we learn that everyone is affected by America's war with Vietnam; they are grappling with the past and trying to find their way forward into the future. Lewis' father fought in the war; Kit's parents fled after the war, and then refused to talk about it. Kit befriends a woman who is a tour guide for an art museum; he observes strangers on a train. The traffic is heavy and relentless, but the rhythms of Kit's life in this place are slow.

This is a gay movie but it's also not; it's more about place, time, uncertainty, change. There is no homophobia, Kit's gay identity is almost incidental.

With it's slowness and gentle manner, this film encourages contemplation.

Summer of Soul - Hulu

A documentary about the Harlem Cultural Festival that took place in 1969. Very enjoyable! Beautiful to look at, incredible music, with some important political and historical content. Features performances by BB King, Nina Simone, the 5th Dimension, Sly and the Family Stone, Gladys Knight, and many others.

It reminded me a lot of another concert documentary I saw a couple of years ago, and of course I don't remember the name. It was about a California music festival in maybe 1963, and featured the Mamas and the Papas, Otis Redding, and Jimmi Hendrix lighting his guitar on fire. It was a documentary with no narration or commentary. Both these films have a soft, lush color to them, and of course stunning performances.
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A friend asked about Iconic or Favorite Queer movies, and as you may know I have lots to say about this topic. I put together a themed rec list.

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I think I was outside too much today; I got a headache. Abbie wanted to lie down in the back yard, so I sat in the shade and I finished reading "The Secret to Superhuman Strength," which I liked.

Today's queer movie from the library was:
"Disobedience" (2017).

Rachel Weisz plays Ronit, the daughter of a prominent rabbi who has just died. She returns to the Jewish orthodox community in London, a community which she walked away from, to mourn. She reconnects with her best friends from childhood, Dovid and Esti. Slowly we learn that Esti and Ronit were a couple in the past, and they still have feelings for each other. The three friends are caught up by the demands of their religion and their community, and by their complicated feelings for each other.

This was a bit slow at times but I really liked it.
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Boy Meets Girl

A low-budget indie movie about a trans woman, Ricky, and her best friend who are living in small-town Kentucky. Ricky decides to date a woman, Francesca, and her best friend Robbie has to confront his feelings. This was a bit awkward in places but was a sweet story.

The Mountain Between Us

An adventure, survival, romance tale starring Kate Winslet and Idris Elba. It was an entertaining story about two people who survive a plane crash in the mountains and must try to make their way down to civilization. Tag under "huddling for warmth." Features a cute dog.

Both were library DVDs.
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BPM (Beats per Minute)
120 battements par minute - 2017- dir. Robin Campillo. French with English subtitles.

What do you say about a movie like this? It blew me away. It was so emotional, so honest, so gorgeous and heartbreaking.

It is the early 1990s and ACT UP Paris members are protesting using direct action methods. This is a fictional film that at times feels like a documentary. Many of the scenes take place in a lecture hall where the group has their weekly meetings, debating and discussing actions, which include things like going into a pharmaceutical company and throwing balloons full of fake blood onto the walls and windows.

A new member of the group, Nathan, falls in love with Sean, who is vocal, ferociously brave, and sick with HIV. We see their relationship develop, and we see Sean get more and more sick. They are the main characters, but we see many other members of the group, such as Hélène, who is a member with her teenage son Marco, a hemophiliac. Thibault and Sophie are leaders of the group and are tasked with moderating impassioned debates. Jérémie is a quiet young man with a sweet smile.

I was so utterly transported that I didn't notice the time going by; this movie is a lengthy 2 hours 23 minutes. Fans of "Portrait of a Lady on Fire" will notice lesbian actress Adèle Haenel as Sophie. Argentian actor Nahuel Pérez Biscayart plays Sean, and he is outstanding. He has these big, expressive eyes and is totally believable.

Highly recommended, but bring your tissue box. Content notes: illness, death, needles, fake blood that looks real, homophobic slurs.

Battle of the Sexes - 2017

A pleasant and entertaining movie about Billie Jean King (played by Emma Stone) and her famous tennis match with Bobby Riggs (played by Steve Carrell). This is the sort of movie you can watch with your family; most of the characters are portrayed sympathetically and the message is about how women deserve respect. There is a subplot involving King falling in love with her hairdresser, Marilynn, while being married to a man. This involves a little bit of angst but not a lot. Also stars bisexual actors Natalie Morales and Alan Cumming. It's a bit too long at 2 hours 1 min.

Dark Waters - 2019.

This is not a queer movie, but the director, Todd Haynes, is gay, so maybe I can count it here in my queer movie report. It's a drama about a lawyer who investigates water pollution in West Virginia. Although he is a corporate lawyer, he sues Du Pont and represents the people of a small town in taking on this "titan of industry". This takes a number of years from about 1998-2006, and reveals some very scary facts about Du Pont and their capacity for evil.

There is something strange about the lighting in this film, it was very dim and gray, as if shot through a dark filter. It was not enjoyable from a purely aesthetic perspective, at least not to me. The story and acting were good. Mark Ruffalo plays the lawyer, Anne Hathaway plays his wife. Strangely there was only one Black person in the whole movie, and he was one of the corporate lawyers; everyone else was white. This felt like a very Mark Ruffalo film in that it's about water pollution, one of his areas of activism, and it's about investigation similar to "Spotlight".

Content note: animal harm (cows). Cancer, illness, death; discussion of infertility and birth defects.


All these movies made available to me through my wonderful public library.
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The Gay Deceivers - 1969 - YouTube.

The premise of this is, 2 young men are trying to avoid being drafted and having to go to Vietnam. So they pretend to be a couple. They move in together into a one-bedroom apartment in a gay neighborhood; they are frequently visited by a particular neighbor who is trying to welcome them into the community. The film starts out as a funny farce, but gets too long, and too serious, by the end. The fanfic or romance way to end this would be to turn the fake relationship into a real one, but the film does not go there. Instead the two part ways after successfully avoiding the draft, but having experienced negative consequences from lying: one man gets fired, the other loses his (female) fiancee. I didn't love this, and I didn't hate it; it was kind of interesting, but felt like a missed opportunity. It's also extremely white, so despite showing a gay bar and a themed party, it felt unrealistic in that way. It has a somewhat "Exploitation" feel to it; lots of people wearing swim suits and skimpy clothes. Lots of references to sex with women (one of the men is a slutty himbo type).
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Library DVDs:

The Handmaiden.
I shouldn't have watched this; like-- I knew there was terrible violence in it. I watched it anyway for some reason, and then got sucked into the story and was enjoying it! It's a well done lesbian love story in some ways, with interesting twists and turns. At the end, there is a terrible graphic torture scene. This was upsetting but it's got me thinking about writing an essay on torture in media, so, good side effect I guess?

The Defiant Ones - 1958.

I liked this, and want to watch it again when I am feeling better, because it was hard to concentrate yesterday. The DVD didn't have subtitles which made it difficult to understand what they were saying (mostly because I was tired).
It's a simple story that is well-told: Sidney Poitier and Tony Curtis play two imprisoned people who escape. They are chained together by the wrist, so they must rely on each other for survival. There's discussion of race, class, and treating imprisoned people as human beings worthy of compassion.

LoveSong - 2017.

An indie film about two best friends, Sarah and Mindy. Sarah's husband is constantly traveling, so she is essentially raising her young daughter by herself, and she's stressed out and lonely. Mindy comes for a visit, and eventually they sleep together.
In part 2, Sarah and her daughter attend Mindy's wedding a few years later.
This film is kind of slow, and not a lot happens, but it's well done. The acting is very good and the dialog is realistic. The characters don't say things directly. These two love each other, but for whatever reason, they aren't willing or able to take the leap into being a couple.
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I'm trying to stay off the computer and phone for back pain reasons, so I'm watching a ton of movies. I want to jot them down so I don't forget.

Netflix:

Not Normal, Wanda Sykes comedy special. I overall enjoyed this a lot. She talks about politics, being married (she's married to a French woman), being a parent, race, and getting older.

Easy A: A fun teen comedy. The main character pretends to be a slut and she observes how her classmates react. Has some very funny moments.

Hulu:
Hearts Beat Loud. I loved this quiet, intimate story about a father whose daughter is about to move away to go to college. He decides to close his record store also. He and his daughter write a few songs together and he has a moment where he thinks they can be a band. The daughter is a queer woman of color. Starring Nick Offerman, Kiersy Clemmons, Toni Collette. The music is good and the story is sweet.

Rocketman. Very creative, colorful, and fun to watch. I liked how Elton John's hit songs were interspersed with important moments in his life. Starring Taron Edgerton and Jamie Bell. Content notes: lots of drugs, a suicide attempt, abuse.

Parasite: Very well done, thought-provoking, disturbing. The first act is way funnier than I expected. It's about a poor family struggling to survive; the (adult) son takes a job as a tutor for a rich family, and he arranges things to get his sister a job in the house too, using false credentials. The scam expands so that their parents are also employed by this rich family. It starts out relatively harmless--they are doing the jobs they were hired for, just using false names and pretending they aren't related to each other. But there's a twist that leads into act 2. This is when things get creepy and the scam starts to go sour. Very beautifully filmed.

Someone Great. Sadly, this was just kind of boring. It's about three friends having a night out. The main character (Gina Rodriguez) has just broken up with her long-term boyfriend because she's going to move across the country. During their night out, she processes this loss and prepares to move on. The two best friends each have minor side-plots; one of them is a Black lesbian and is in a cute relationship. There wasn't anything really objectionable but this movie was pretty forgettable overall.

Library DVDs:

The Favourite. I only half-watched this to be honest. It was very beautiful to look at, but I was not into it. There is so much lying and manipulation going on, that it's nearly impossible to tell what people's real motives are. The people seemed pretty horrible and the Queen seemed mostly to be suffering.

Jumanji: the next level

This is very much in keeping with the previous movie and is similarly delightful. This is a large franchise and I've only seen the 2017 and 2019 ones, but I hope they make a bunch more. It's just such a funny and creative concept: people get magically sucked into a video game and have to survive and figure out how to win the game. They are in avatar bodies that may have little resemblance to their own bodies. The whole cast is back for this one: Jack Black, The Rock, Karen Gillan, Kevin Hart, Nick Jonas, plus Awkwafina joins.

The D Train

I don't know what to think about this one. Jack Black plays Dan, a guy planning his high school reunion. He's happily married, has kids and a decent job, but feels like somewhat of a loser, and is lonely for friends. He gets the idea to recruit the most popular classmate to come to the reunion, thinking, well, then everyone will come, and I'll be a hero. He arranges a fake business trip to California to meet up with the popular guy, Oliver, played by James Marsden. They party together for a few nights and eventually have sex. Oliver agrees to come to the reunion. Dan is very confused about his feelings and situation. Eventually his lies blow up in his face, but it all seems to work out ok in the end.

Unfortunately the humor in this relies on embarrassment and awkwardness, which means it's not that fun to watch. I think it does say something interesting, though: Dan has a huge crush on Oliver, but it's a forbidden crush because it's queer, so he can't admit it, and that leads him to act in strange ways, lying to everyone and to himself. I'm not sure straight audiences would pick up on how accurate this is; I'm not sure the movie itself knows how accurate this is. I've personally been there, doing weird things and not truly understanding why.

To have a bisexual or queer awakening is confusing and disruptive and potentially a great source for humor. The movie doesn't address this as directly as it could.

To Dan, sex means love and connection, while to Oliver, sex means a casual good time, and this leads to some of the major conflict in the story. That's also interesting and could have been more directly addressed.

This movie didn't quite work, but I liked it anyways, because it raised these really interesting issues. I particularly liked that good-looking, charming Oliver found Dan attractive, and liked him.
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Victor/Victoria - 1982; source: local library. Starring Julie Andrews.

Not sure how/why I waited so long to see this. At least quarantine has been allowing me to catch up on movies.

I am amazed and pleased at how super queer this movie is. The opening scene has two men waking up in bed together. One goes to dresser and takes money out of the other's wallet. The setting is 1939, Paris; many of the scenes take place in queer-friendly cabarets.

The story is a truly funny farce with lots of great one-liners, comebacks, and gags. The protagonists have a refreshing lack of homophobia. I'm just amazed that this was a mainstream movie in the early 80s, with big-name actors, and it won awards. There are no gay bashings, though there are some anti-gay slurs used.

My one complaint/content note is that in one scene, late in the film, someone intentionally smashes another person's finger, and it's played for laughs. There were a couple other somewhat uncomfortable moments, but overall, the tone is light and playful, one might even say Gay!

The Boys in the Band - 2020 - Netflix.

This is a remake of a 1968 play and movie about a group of gay men who gather to celebrate a birthday. The cast of this film is the same as the Broadway revival; it features actors who are openly gay and includes Zachary Quinto, Jim Parsons, and Matt Bomer.

I felt like I was missing some cultural context for this. To me it just seemed like these "friends" didn't actually like each other that much, and were being mean to each other for sport. I suffered through the last half of it, mostly to watch Zachary Quinto chew scenery while wearing a green velvet suit. I'm glad I saw it, though, for cultural reasons. I also watched the short documentary about the film, in which the playwright, Mart Crowley, was interviewed.

I was pleased to learn that two of the actors in the piece, who play a couple, became a couple IRL and are now together. That's some fan fic shit right there.
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Kedi - 2016

My roommate got this out from the library. It's a soothing documentary about street cats in Istanbul and the people who love and care for them. It doesn't get into any of the outdoor cat discourse. Lots of lovely photography of the sea and Istanbul's city scapes. Recommended.

content notes: some discussion of cats getting injured and dying.

A New York Christmas Wedding - Netflix - 2020

A somewhat cheesy, heartfelt queer romance film involving the trope of an alternate timeline (think "It's a Wonderful Life" but where you see a better reality instead of a worse one).

Jennifer Ortiz is engaged to a rich man, and is dealing with his overbearing mother. When out on a run, she encounters an angel who transports her to an alternate reality, one where her best friend from high school, Gabrielle, is not only still alive, but is engaged to Jennifer. Jennifer has 2 days to experience this relationship, at which point she must make a decision.

A very sweet film, and I liked Jennifer and Gabrielle a lot.

Content notes: Catholicism; mention of a miscarriage; death of parents; a dog is euthanized towards the beginning of the film (Jennifer is working at a vet's office).
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I have been finding new things to watch via Tumblr gifsets. Occasionally I'll also follow the works of an actor or director. Where do you get ideas for things to watch?

"Man in an Orange Shirt" - TV miniseries, 2017
IMDB: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6255500/
Source: local library DVD

I loved this so much?? It was so emotional; I really felt what was happening in my heart. I had to take multiple breaks to moderate the intensity of what I was feeling. I think it resonated for me because two of the main characters are queer and have anxiety. The acting is really wonderful.

There are 2 stories here, the first taking place just after WWII. Michael reconnects with an old friend during the war, an artist named Thomas. They fall in love and spend some wonderful days at Michael's cottage in the country. Sadly, Michael has a fiancee named Flora, and he goes back to his normal life and marries her.

There are a number of famous stories like this, where one man is more accepting of being queer, and the other goes off to get married to a woman and to lead a more socially-acceptable life-- think "Call me by your name"; sometimes I find this story annoying, but in this case it was so sensitively told. I got the feeling that Michael's anxiety was driving him: we see several times where he wants to do something, but just can't make himself do it. He genuinely cares about Flora, has known her for a long time, and relies on her, even when she finds out about his relationship with Thomas.

In the second part of the story, we meet Flora again when she is an old woman, in present day. She lives with her grandson Adam, whom she has raised.

Adam is a partly-closeted gay man who works as either a vet or vet tech. He hooks up with strangers on a Grindr-like app, but doesn't date. He meets a designer named Steve, and they form an instant connection. Adam hires Steve to help him assess and fix up the country cottage, which has fallen into disrepair.

Adam must deal with his own anxieties and with Flora's homophobia, and this was especially interesting because we see the source of her deep hurt. This film has sympathy for all its characters; none of them are villains; they are all complex and wounded people.

Wikipedia says: "The script and idea come from the British best-selling-author Patrick Gale, whose family history is the autobiographical core of the plot."

Content notes: A very old and beloved cat is euthanized due to old age; it's not graphic but is a plot point. There is drinking and rough sex. Plenty of homophobia on display, but it's treated as bad by the narrative.

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