snowflake challenge #4

[sasha_feather]

Challenge #4

In your own space, set some goals for the coming year. They can be fannish or not, public or private.

My goals for the year:

1. Write at least 2 fanfics.
2. Go on at least 2 dates.

I'm nervous about goals, so I'm going to set the bar low and give myself time to think about them before I do them. I feel (physically) better when I give myself permission to do nothing. Then I usually end up doing things because I have some energy, and because I want to, rather than feeling like I'm pushing myself because I have to. It's such a balance to maintain with a chronic illness, because the threshold is always shifting. I'd always like to do more than I am able to do.

WRT dating: I think it'd be a good idea to date a poly person, who has other partner(s), or someone who is just low-key. I don't have the energy to be constantly calling, texting, getting together. It's been some time since I've dated, and I'm mostly fine with being by myself, but sometimes I feel like I'm missing out.

Comments

[spikedluv]

Good luck meeting your goals and maintaining the balance you need.

[sasha_feather]

Thank you! :)

[fadedwings]

Good luck with it all ♥

[sasha_feather]

Thank you! :)

[owlectomy]

Good luck with dating! I am trying to go on dates this year and it is difficult.
I have often said that I want, like, a 70%-of-the-time partner. Because even with my meager social life I already feel like I can't go to work and write and stay on top of errands/housework.

[jesse_the_k]

Oh! a 70% partner is a grand idea. Let's inculcate society with it!

[toft]

Those sound like nice goals!