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snowflake challenge #4
Jan. 10th, 2020 10:46 pmChallenge #4
In your own space, set some goals for the coming year. They can be fannish or not, public or private.
My goals for the year:
1. Write at least 2 fanfics.
2. Go on at least 2 dates.
I'm nervous about goals, so I'm going to set the bar low and give myself time to think about them before I do them. I feel (physically) better when I give myself permission to do nothing. Then I usually end up doing things because I have some energy, and because I want to, rather than feeling like I'm pushing myself because I have to. It's such a balance to maintain with a chronic illness, because the threshold is always shifting. I'd always like to do more than I am able to do.
WRT dating: I think it'd be a good idea to date a poly person, who has other partner(s), or someone who is just low-key. I don't have the energy to be constantly calling, texting, getting together. It's been some time since I've dated, and I'm mostly fine with being by myself, but sometimes I feel like I'm missing out.
In your own space, set some goals for the coming year. They can be fannish or not, public or private.
My goals for the year:
1. Write at least 2 fanfics.
2. Go on at least 2 dates.
I'm nervous about goals, so I'm going to set the bar low and give myself time to think about them before I do them. I feel (physically) better when I give myself permission to do nothing. Then I usually end up doing things because I have some energy, and because I want to, rather than feeling like I'm pushing myself because I have to. It's such a balance to maintain with a chronic illness, because the threshold is always shifting. I'd always like to do more than I am able to do.
WRT dating: I think it'd be a good idea to date a poly person, who has other partner(s), or someone who is just low-key. I don't have the energy to be constantly calling, texting, getting together. It's been some time since I've dated, and I'm mostly fine with being by myself, but sometimes I feel like I'm missing out.
