sasha_feather: Leela from the 5th element (multipass)
Hello! I am doing OK and hope you are too. I felt awful earlier today but went back to sleep for a while and after that, things were better. I am going to try and embrace this night life instead of fighting it, for the time being. I also asked for help with getting groceries, since grocery delivery is overwhelmed with orders right now and is a bit tricky to navigate. It's not like I loved going to the grocery store, but I loved being able to just go get food whenever I wanted to, including the middle of the night. Stores that used to be open all the time are closed now at night for cleaning and re-stocking.

I really appreciate folks who have reached out. Doing video phone calls has been great-- it's easier than regular phone calls for me. I suppose I get a lot of information from facial expressions, and it's easier to pay attention and not zone out.

People are creative and resourceful. We'll get through this together.
sasha_feather: the back of furiosa's head (furiosa: back of head)
Lately I'm happier when I simply allow myself to be awake and active in the evening and at night, sleep during the morning, and rest during the afternoon. Resting means sitting and watching TV, usually. Ironically the main things I have to do during the 9-5 hours which involve leaving the house are doctor appointments and going to the pharmacy, ie seeking health care whilst having a sleep disorder.

Running errands at night has led to several interesting encounters with my fellow creatures of the night. Hy-Vee is our 24-hour grocery store. It's a giant place, super brightly lit, and at this hour the stockers are out shelving items. I wore my X-23 shirt today (from the movie Logan), which led to 2 of the employees engaging me in fairly long monologues about comics, which was hilarious since I know approximately zilch about superhero comics! Maybe I should get a shirt about graphic memoirs.

A few months ago, returning my library books at 2 AM, a stranger approached me in the deserted parking lot. Note that, while he appeared to come out of nowhere, I didn't get a threatening or creepy vibe from him at all. He seemed friendly and shouted "Hey big guy!" at me (seeing me from behind). When I turned around, he said, "OH I'm sorry." He then spoke very fast and told me some sort of story, to which I said, "What are you asking for? Do you need money?" I gave him a couple of bucks, and then he disappeared again. Where did he come from?? Anyways I treasure his "big guy" and it makes me think about that as a friendly term of endearment for men, while fat women don't get afforded this privilege.
sasha_feather: Retro-style poster of skier on pluto.   (fox and rabbit)
A highlight of WisCon for me is the Vid Party.

Here are some gentle and soothing vids that were shown at this year's party.

Landsailor, The Legend of Korra, by skygiants

https://skygiants.dreamwidth.org/416273.html


Happy Little Clouds by Glitzer - the joy of painting



Clear Skies - Kiki's Delivery Service - by Wild AMV

sasha_feather: Black, white, and red image of woman with futuristic helmet (Sci Fi Woman)
These two episodes are kind of boring compared to the first three, but there are some notable points.

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sasha_feather: kid from movie pitch black (pitch black)
I can't sleep so here are some things!

I saw Brave and mostly I liked it, with some reservations.

spoilers )

I maintain that Monsters, Inc is the best Pixar film. I'm not that excited about the sequel, though.

We saw previews for The Hobbit and a couple of animated monster films. The one about Hotel Transylvania, while it looked cute at first-- a male vampire raising a baby!-- quickly went into squick territory because it became about a father trying to control his teenage daughter's sexuality. [personal profile] laceblade looked at each other and snarked.

On Sunday I watched a few episodes of "Push Girls" on a friend's DVR. This is a reality show about women in L.A. who are wheelchair users. Three of them are paraplegic and one is quadraplegic. They are all attractive, middle class, femme women. I found it kind of boring mostly because I am easily bored by reality shows: I like unreality in my entertainment. The main annoyance is that they repeat content in a "Dateline NBC" style, where they show a scene as a teaser, and then show it again a few minutes later as part of the narrative. UGH. The target audience for this show is not, I suspect, radical disability activists like myself, because I already think disability is normal and that people who use wheelchairs can be beautiful, etc.

Autie was my favorite person on the show. She is 42, married, and a dancer. She is funny and says that she comes from a rough background. Her relationship with her husband is super cute. Angela and Tiphany live together. Angela seems like the most emotionally intelligent person of the four, and is trying to restart her modeling career while going through a separation from her husband. Tiphany is bisexual (also she refuses labels) and I don't remember what her job is. Mia has an office job of some kind. I like that some of them are people of color and that Tiphany's relationship with a woman is completely normalized.

In an early episode, Angela hires a photographer to do some head shots or something. This guy is clueless and heinous about disability and says something to the camera like, "She's like an armless man who wants to be a pitcher." My friends and I totally snarked this, saying "Oh, because she's a vampire and her picture won't show on your film!". But Angela was pretty gentle with him and didn't fire him. She patiently explained things to him.

In one episode, Mia's mother visits. Mia's mom is terrible and awful and says all kinds of ableist bullshit. But Mia is brave and patient! Mia confronts her mom about her alcoholism and ableist attitudes. She introduces her to the other push girls. Mom starts to come around a little and see that Mia has things figured out pretty well and that Mia's life really isn't that bad.

I don't think I'll watch any more of this show, mostly because it's boring to me. I don't find it that interesting to watch something where the entire premise is: it's so WEIRD and INTERESTING that conventionally pretty women use wheelchairs and have pretty normal lives!!!

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